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Is there any place online or somewhere that will help me get Christmas for my girls?

Hi, my good credit was ruined by a divorce and a loss of a job in feb2009. I was making ,000 a year so the judge thought he would give me ALL the marital debt, then i lost my job about a month later. I was at that job for 5 years. I bought my own house and expedition with nothing down, if that tells you a little about how my credit was. Then i lost my job, and had to file bankruptcy just so i would not loose my house, and then of course my ex fought me on the bankrupty and it got dismissed, but of course my credit has already been ruined. I make good money again, but im just trying to play catch up, and i am married again to a wonderful man, and the only thing we fight about is money that is it! For my entire life i was the one to ALWAYS help others and now, at my time of need there is no one. So does anyone know of any place online or whatever that will finance Christmas gifts even when you have pathetic credit if you can indeed prove your income? I could care less if i get anything, but my girls are still young, and i want to do something for my husband so bad, for what all he went through just because he loved me so much. Thanks for reading!

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I can't afford to keep paying my parents' bills. How do I say no?

I am a 19 year old college student living 3,000 miles away from my family. I pay for college myself with a combination of scholarships and student loans, and I have a part time job that pays my bills. I pay for everything myself; food, rent, transportation (I don’t have a car, I ride the bus), medication, etc. My parents do not support me monetarily in any way.

Three years ago, the company my father worked for went bankrupt. Because of the economy, he has been unable to find a job. There is zero chance he’ll find a job that pays what his old job paid, but he won’t take any menial job, even for a few years until the economy gets better. My mother’s company is on the verge of going bankrupt and she has had her salary cut in half. They lost the house to foreclosure and are now living in a small rental.

Because of these issues, my parents have asked me to start sending parts of my paycheck to them. I have been giving them enough to help them pay smaller bills, like heat or water, but I can’t afford to give them more. Recently, my work hours have been cut back (economy), and I’m not making as much extra money as I used to. I told them I would be unable to continue helping them, but they got upset and told me it’s my duty as a daughter to help my parents in a time of need. They say that with all they’ve given me, I should give back to them. I want to help, but I’m running out of money. What should I do?
Because the first answerer asked, I have a 16 year old sister.

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