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should i leave my husband?

admin — Wed, 25 May 2011 14:26:09 +0000

we have had a rough marriage. he has lost his job which caused us to lose our house and file bankruptcy and now we live with our two kids with his dad…… sigh…… now i lost my job of four years and the medical , dental, and life insurance that went with it. i got approved for unemployment….. and the kids are getting approved for insurance so…… why is treating me so bad. He doesn’t say it allowed it’s cause i lost my job…. but that’s when it started.

now he says…… i cant stand to look at you. i can’t stand coming home and hearing the kids scream. Please just leave. I’m through with you….. can u believe he is telling me that he wants a divorce?? I"m usually the one saying that to him. and now that i have no way to support myself with no job he wants to kick me out of his dad’s house….. which is cool…….i’ll go but he says i cant take the kids. and i say i’m not abandoning them.

so what do i do?

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why does my life suck, and what should I do?

admin — Sat, 21 May 2011 16:49:08 +0000

I have been pushed around and made fun of my entire life, I had no friends growing up, I was beat up constantly, and my parents were both drunks, so I got beaten at home too. My mother used to put out cigarettes on my head. It got that the school beatings were less then the home beatings so I did not want to go home. The kids in school got together and made an award for me as the most unpopular kid in school when I was in 6th grade. I graduated high school, and my luck never got better,during high school my parents got divorced and blamed the entire thing on me and said I was an accident, and they wish they had never had me. They both put on their item list that neither one of them wanted custody of me.Then I flunked out of college, couldn’t hold a decent job, I still had no friends. and that went on until I was 23 when I met my now wife, and for the first time in my life I was happy, she liked me for me, and she was good to me. A year and a half ago we got married, and she totally changed. She became very abusive and calls me an effen retard, and stupid a@@ all the time, and she hits me with things and smacks me calling me retarded. I had thought about divorce and then we found out that she was pregnant, and the first words out of her mouth were I hope that our kid is not a retard like you, so now I can’t divorce her. We also recently had to file bankruptcy, and I lost my car and my job, and up until recently have been unemployed for the last six months, and we got evicted from our apartment, and had to move back in with my dad. Let me tell you I am 26, and I still feel like a child, I get picked on from both of them, and my mother when I see her, I have no car to get away and no friends to hang out with, I am seriously considering suicide, but I don’t want to leave another child without a father, and I always swore I would try to be a better parent than mine were to me, but I wonder if I can be. I an not happy in my marriage and I would never cheat on my wife, but she doesen’t believe in sexual relations anymore, just to add fuel to the fire. I mean all my life I have never had someone that I could go hang out with who thought I was cool, and when someone tried to talk to me I tried so hard to get them to like me, that they all run away. I cry daily now, and just want to give up, I have no hobbies, I would like to learn how to ride a horse, and at 260lbs, everyplace I tried laughed at me and said I was too fat, I can’t fit in anywhere, and I am typing this as a last resort to see if anyone actually cares, but I don’t feel that I will get any responses

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i am going to file bankruptcy but have ?s?

admin — Tue, 04 Jan 2011 08:27:56 +0000

i am in WA and will be filling CH13 but my bf is getting ready to join the AF so we are not going to wait the 2yrs like we wanting to to get married we will be getting married here in Oct i have not yet had my ratainer meeting but will here in the next couple of weeks i just wanted to know if any one knows if this will mess up his credit in order to join because we have a daughter together m it will be better for us for him to join when we are married so could anyone help me with this question please and his names are not on it all the debt is from my last marriage almost 6 yrs ago i just cant do it anymore and all have gone to collection and me and my bf dont pay for each others bills and everything else is 50/50

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In a new relationship, is this a deal breaker and when do you divulge it?

admin — Wed, 01 Dec 2010 21:37:46 +0000

With the economy etc., I went through a horrible time – my marriage ended, my house foreclosed and I filed bankruptcy. That was 2 years ago. I’ve met a great person and there is a huge possibility of a very real relationship with her. I feel it important to be up front but I don’t want to lose her. Should this be a deal breaker? Tell her sooner or later or is it none of her business?

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Should I file bankruptcy before i get married?

admin — Fri, 15 Oct 2010 15:39:41 +0000

I have been forclosed and the defecit to the lender is to high I have no job after a divorce everything went to ground. I am planning to remarry , however I do not want my current bad credit to affect my fiance. would my old financial issues affect her immidiately after marriage? how to prevent that?
would that be better to file bankrupcy before we get married. what are the provision of the law ?

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