My dad owe ,000 to credit cards, lines of credit etc..

It all started when we bought a house. My dad was the only one working. After two months purchasing the house, my dad lost his job. So, hoping the he’ll find another job, my dad kept on paying the mortgage, property tax etc from his credit cards.

He did not find any job. My mom found a job but not a good paying job.

After 3 years, we couldn’t afford it and sold the house.

Right now, we live in an apartment. My dad is diabetic and has other medical problems and can’t find any job. Also, his language difficulty is preventing him from finding a job.

My mom works and its enough just for rent and food for our family.

My dad keeps getting phone calls from credit companies and stuff asking him to pay. My mom gives him 50 or 100 bucks per month to pay his credit cards but she can’t do this every month because she only earn that extra if she works extra hours. She has arthritis and her doctor told she shouldn’t work much.
My parents’ first language is not English, hence my dad has difficulties with English.

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I am very nervous about what can happen to my home. I am waiting for a closing date as my parents gave me money to purchase a modest home. I am married and my husband and I need to file bankruptcy. We lost our home to forclosure a few years ago, lost our vehicles and had some credit cards. My parents want to see me enjoy part of my my inheritance now and I also have health issues that allow me to only work part time. I know I need to contact an attourney but I dont have the money for that yet. We are still renting but will be closing within the next 2 weeks. What should we do when we file? Again, the home will be only in my name which I am not sure if this will help or not. My husband has some personal credit issues and I as well. But, most of our issues are together. We believe we should file a chapter 13. He is a school teacher and I am a part time self employed music teacher. He also owes a lot of money on student loans from getting his Bachelors degree. I am 51 years old, am very grateful to my parents yet very nervous about losing my home. Thank you !
My parents do not want the home in their name as they do not want to pay Insurance and taxes among other reasons. I have heard of many people owning homes and filing chapter 13. If this is the answer do you think we need to do it soon so the courts do see that we are trying to resolve the issue after recieving this gift? They will also see that our hardship and loss was due to my husband being in the mortgage industry and my health issues.
Thank you for your answers. Here is my second question to my second answer.
We had put down a chunk of money for escrow. We were to close a few weeks ago until Fannie Mae said that they need go over the homes forclosure papers. Something was not done exact. I and Fannie Mae signed an extension. Can I back out of the deal and do the bankruptcy then look again for a home again? Or, will I lose the escrow money which my dad would kill me for that. That is my concern now?
Omg… yes they paid cash…. And, yes it is in my name only.

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we have had a rough marriage. he has lost his job which caused us to lose our house and file bankruptcy and now we live with our two kids with his dad…… sigh…… now i lost my job of four years and the medical , dental, and life insurance that went with it. i got approved for unemployment….. and the kids are getting approved for insurance so…… why is treating me so bad. He doesn’t say it allowed it’s cause i lost my job…. but that’s when it started.

now he says…… i cant stand to look at you. i can’t stand coming home and hearing the kids scream. Please just leave. I’m through with you….. can u believe he is telling me that he wants a divorce?? I"m usually the one saying that to him. and now that i have no way to support myself with no job he wants to kick me out of his dad’s house….. which is cool…….i’ll go but he says i cant take the kids. and i say i’m not abandoning them.

so what do i do?

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I have been married almost 3 years. I have 2 children under 2 yrs old. My husband has a pill problem and is a thief. He has stolen my money so many times I have had to file bankruptcy. I can’t have credit cards, a checking account, or anything. My husband always begs me to come back and I do because I love him. Earlier this year, he stole the last 0 I had and bought pills and wrecked my car. We couldn’t even pay the utilities on our house. (well, I couldn’t pay them, my husband doesn’t have a job.) So he moved in with his dad and I moved in with mine. Recently after we moved in with our dads, I found out I was pregnant. My husband got kicked out of his dads house for stealing and being on pills. He had nowhere to go so I let him stay with me to help me with our newborn daughter. Last week he was on pills again and stole some money from my dad and me so my dad kicked him out. Every time this happens he says he is done with the pills and it won’t happen again. I always take him back and this time I said he cannot stay with my dad and I. We have a house that I am still making payments on but since he doesn’t have a job I can’t pay for the house, utilities, and groceries by myself. Thats why I’m living with my dad so my kids will have water and heat. He is now telling me that he is completely done with pills. His mom is going to put him in therapy and he is going to apply for jobs and possibly go to the army. I do love him and that would be fine but I’m afraid I can’t trust him. My parents are begging me to get a divorce. But even if I do I know I will still see him alot because of the kids and that will be hard for me. When we got married I knew he already had 1 kid which was fine but since we got married he found out he has another and next month he is getting a DNA test for another, which that is really hard for me to deal with. I know he didn’t cheat on me. But if he does get a job, all his money will go to child support for these other kids? He has been put in jail more than once for back child support and is also being questioned for some residential break ins. I am afraid if I leave him I won’t find anyone else and if I did find someone else my husband would make it hell for me. I’m sure it sounds like a no brainer I wish I could turn off my feelings but I really do love this guy too much. I just wanted an outside opinion from someone that doesn’t know us. Thanks in advance
I do not have a drug problem, and when he is on drugs I do keep the kids away from him.

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I have been pushed around and made fun of my entire life, I had no friends growing up, I was beat up constantly, and my parents were both drunks, so I got beaten at home too. My mother used to put out cigarettes on my head. It got that the school beatings were less then the home beatings so I did not want to go home. The kids in school got together and made an award for me as the most unpopular kid in school when I was in 6th grade. I graduated high school, and my luck never got better,during high school my parents got divorced and blamed the entire thing on me and said I was an accident, and they wish they had never had me. They both put on their item list that neither one of them wanted custody of me.Then I flunked out of college, couldn’t hold a decent job, I still had no friends. and that went on until I was 23 when I met my now wife, and for the first time in my life I was happy, she liked me for me, and she was good to me. A year and a half ago we got married, and she totally changed. She became very abusive and calls me an effen retard, and stupid a@@ all the time, and she hits me with things and smacks me calling me retarded. I had thought about divorce and then we found out that she was pregnant, and the first words out of her mouth were I hope that our kid is not a retard like you, so now I can’t divorce her. We also recently had to file bankruptcy, and I lost my car and my job, and up until recently have been unemployed for the last six months, and we got evicted from our apartment, and had to move back in with my dad. Let me tell you I am 26, and I still feel like a child, I get picked on from both of them, and my mother when I see her, I have no car to get away and no friends to hang out with, I am seriously considering suicide, but I don’t want to leave another child without a father, and I always swore I would try to be a better parent than mine were to me, but I wonder if I can be. I an not happy in my marriage and I would never cheat on my wife, but she doesen’t believe in sexual relations anymore, just to add fuel to the fire. I mean all my life I have never had someone that I could go hang out with who thought I was cool, and when someone tried to talk to me I tried so hard to get them to like me, that they all run away. I cry daily now, and just want to give up, I have no hobbies, I would like to learn how to ride a horse, and at 260lbs, everyplace I tried laughed at me and said I was too fat, I can’t fit in anywhere, and I am typing this as a last resort to see if anyone actually cares, but I don’t feel that I will get any responses

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I personally own 4 properties. Each of these are in my name. I have a private loan set up from a hard money lender on each of these properties. one of them is my main residence. The others are rented out. I use the money from the renters to pay the lender. He is a nice guy, and will let the loan ride out as long as I need to. I’ve been working with him for years. I’ve borrowed on each of these homes about half of their value. But through the years, the prices/equity has been cut down, so now there is probably only about 10K profit on each house.

On top of these 4 houses, I have 3 homes that are currently in my name as well, but I am working on remodeling/reselling. My dilemma is complex. I have two other business partners. My dad, and my husband. We’ve never had problems working together, its just we’ve run into problems in the finance dept. Currently, we have a business account for the three of us. We only have enough money for our business to run for one more month. Currently, our bills run about 9K a month. We’re waiting for a house to sell, its valued at 80 but we’re trying to take ANYTHING that will keep us going…so maybe around 60/etc….I dont even know exactly what we’ll take for it, or if it’ll even sell b/c of the economy. We’re trying to pull a loan on it instead to keep things going. But the problem with that, is that we have to use the money we’re going to pull on a loan to remodel another property (we’ll call property #2). We already pulled an 80K loan on property #2 for 80K but its coming in two draws. We spent the first draw on business expenses to keep the business running, and as soon as we spend 20K on the house #2 (its a big time fixer in the napa, ca vacation community) we can get the second draw of 40K, of which, we will have to spend maybe 30K on the house.

All and all, this is the worst case scenario we’ve ever been in. We even have a small rinky dink house #3 tied into the loan of house #2 to protect the investors. House #3 is only worth about 20K….thats why we didnt mind backing it against the other one.

On top of worrying if we’re going to have enough money to survive financially, once we get the napa vacation house (#2) on the market, we dont even know if it will sell at a low/fair market price. We just want to get rid of the house and get rid of the loan and hope to keep business going with the bills.

Also where it gets weird, and concerning the bankruptcy talk….there is an attorney who I owe some money to. At first he was kind, we got along great, and he saw a lot of potential in myself, the business that I do. A few years ago I was needing money so he lent me 20K at 80% interest. I knew that where I placed the money would help me to continue working, and would be worth it in the long run. It was….its just, I havent paid him back yet, so he’s already made about 20K off of the loan, and im continuing to pay him 1,200 per month of interest. He tacked on an old attorney bill from his other firm, but at one point he said he discounted it, but now he’s charging me again. All and all, and please, without judgement of me or him, nothing has been written on paper, and I know there is that saying that a verbal contract is as good as the paper its written on. So all an all. He’s screwing me in several ways. He practically ‘but kindly’ demands that I send several leads to him, to where he’ll make 50-100 on residential properties that are sent his way by ME.

The positions for goes as follows:
My dad has been in charge of the finances and working with the attorney.
My husband has been doing the computer work and finding leads
I have the bank account in my name, go to court, and use MY name on EVERYTHING. Everything that we do between the three of us is open for all 3 of us to see on paper. There is no money laundering or anything strange between us. We are all best friends.

I am just REALLY REALLY freaking stressed. Mainly because I am so young, and worry about my future. If I were to file bankruptcy couldnt I put the houses in a trust or my sisters name and bankrupty off the attorney? I know its ridiculous but we dont even know how much we owe him. It could be 50K or it could be 100K.

If the business fails, what precautions can I take before hand??? I may only have a month or two before it hits the fan….I was thinking of opening a second bank account at another bank, it case we go broke with the one, and get into check systems, at least i’d have another account, b/c once you go into it you cant open another account. Im so scared. And not that I want to make this a focal point of my storyline, but my dad has a 400K life insurance policy. He said that if something ‘happened to him’ and he died, we would get it. Im worried about our business, my ‘name’ in general, losing my family, my future….im stressed and need advice. On ANYTHING. Im young and fragile righ

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I personally own 4 properties. Each of these are in my name. I have a private loan set up from a hard money lender on each of these properties. one of them is my main residence. The others are rented out. I use the money from the renters to pay the lender. He is a nice guy, and will let the loan ride out as long as I need to. I’ve been working with him for years. I’ve borrowed on each of these homes about half of their value. But through the years, the prices/equity has been cut down, so now there is probably only about 10K profit on each house.

On top of these 4 houses, I have 3 homes that are currently in my name as well, but I am working on remodeling/reselling. My dilemma is complex. I have two other business partners. My dad, and my husband. We’ve never had problems working together, its just we’ve run into problems in the finance dept. Currently, we have a business account for the three of us. We only have enough money for our business to run for one more month. Currently, our bills run about 9K a month. We’re waiting for a house to sell, its valued at 80 but we’re trying to take ANYTHING that will keep us going…so maybe around 60/etc….I dont even know exactly what we’ll take for it, or if it’ll even sell b/c of the economy. We’re trying to pull a loan on it instead to keep things going. But the problem with that, is that we have to use the money we’re going to pull on a loan to remodel another property (we’ll call property #2). We already pulled an 80K loan on property #2 for 80K but its coming in two draws. We spent the first draw on business expenses to keep the business running, and as soon as we spend 20K on the house #2 (its a big time fixer in the napa, ca vacation community) we can get the second draw of 40K, of which, we will have to spend maybe 30K on the house.

All and all, this is the worst case scenario we’ve ever been in. We even have a small rinky dink house #3 tied into the loan of house #2 to protect the investors. House #3 is only worth about 20K….thats why we didnt mind backing it against the other one.

On top of worrying if we’re going to have enough money to survive financially, once we get the napa vacation house (#2) on the market, we dont even know if it will sell at a low/fair market price. We just want to get rid of the house and get rid of the loan and hope to keep business going with the bills.

Also where it gets weird, and concerning the bankruptcy talk….there is an attorney who I owe some money to. At first he was kind, we got along great, and he saw a lot of potential in myself, the business that I do. A few years ago I was needing money so he lent me 20K at 80% interest. I knew that where I placed the money would help me to continue working, and would be worth it in the long run. It was….its just, I havent paid him back yet, so he’s already made about 20K off of the loan, and im continuing to pay him 1,200 per month of interest. He tacked on an old attorney bill from his other firm, but at one point he said he discounted it, but now he’s charging me again. All and all, and please, without judgement of me or him, nothing has been written on paper, and I know there is that saying that a verbal contract is as good as the paper its written on. So all an all. He’s screwing me in several ways. He practically ‘but kindly’ demands that I send several leads to him, to where he’ll make 50-100 on residential properties that are sent his way by ME.

The positions for goes as follows:
My dad has been in charge of the finances and working with the attorney.
My husband has been doing the computer work and finding leads
I have the bank account in my name, go to court, and use MY name on EVERYTHING. Everything that we do between the three of us is open for all 3 of us to see on paper. There is no money laundering or anything strange between us. We are all best friends.

I am just REALLY REALLY freaking stressed. Mainly because I am so young, and worry about my future. If I were to file bankruptcy couldnt I put the houses in a trust or my sisters name and bankrupty off the attorney? I know its ridiculous but we dont even know how much we owe him. It could be 50K or it could be 100K.

If the business fails, what precautions can I take before hand??? I may only have a month or two before it hits the fan….I was thinking of opening a second bank account at another bank, it case we go broke with the one, and get into check systems, at least i’d have another account, b/c once you go into it you cant open another account. Im so scared. And not that I want to make this a focal point of my storyline, but my dad has a 400K life insurance policy. He said that if something ‘happened to him’ and he died, we would get it. Im worried about our business, my ‘name’ in general, losing my family, my future….im stressed and need advice. On ANYTHING. Im young and fragile righ

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I personally own 4 properties. Each of these are in my name. I have a private loan set up from a hard money lender on each of these properties. one of them is my main residence. The others are rented out. I use the money from the renters to pay the lender. He is a nice guy, and will let the loan ride out as long as I need to. I’ve been working with him for years. I’ve borrowed on each of these homes about half of their value. But through the years, the prices/equity has been cut down, so now there is probably only about 10K profit on each house.

On top of these 4 houses, I have 3 homes that are currently in my name as well, but I am working on remodeling/reselling. My dilemma is complex. I have two other business partners. My dad, and my husband. We’ve never had problems working together, its just we’ve run into problems in the finance dept. Currently, we have a business account for the three of us. We only have enough money for our business to run for one more month. Currently, our bills run about 9K a month. We’re waiting for a house to sell, its valued at 80 but we’re trying to take ANYTHING that will keep us going…so maybe around 60/etc….I dont even know exactly what we’ll take for it, or if it’ll even sell b/c of the economy. We’re trying to pull a loan on it instead to keep things going. But the problem with that, is that we have to use the money we’re going to pull on a loan to remodel another property (we’ll call property #2). We already pulled an 80K loan on property #2 for 80K but its coming in two draws. We spent the first draw on business expenses to keep the business running, and as soon as we spend 20K on the house #2 (its a big time fixer in the napa, ca vacation community) we can get the second draw of 40K, of which, we will have to spend maybe 30K on the house.

All and all, this is the worst case scenario we’ve ever been in. We even have a small rinky dink house #3 tied into the loan of house #2 to protect the investors. House #3 is only worth about 20K….thats why we didnt mind backing it against the other one.

On top of worrying if we’re going to have enough money to survive financially, once we get the napa vacation house (#2) on the market, we dont even know if it will sell at a low/fair market price. We just want to get rid of the house and get rid of the loan and hope to keep business going with the bills.

Also where it gets weird, and concerning the bankruptcy talk….there is an attorney who I owe some money to. At first he was kind, we got along great, and he saw a lot of potential in myself, the business that I do. A few years ago I was needing money so he lent me 20K at 80% interest. I knew that where I placed the money would help me to continue working, and would be worth it in the long run. It was….its just, I havent paid him back yet, so he’s already made about 20K off of the loan, and im continuing to pay him 1,200 per month of interest. He tacked on an old attorney bill from his other firm, but at one point he said he discounted it, but now he’s charging me again. All and all, and please, without judgement of me or him, nothing has been written on paper, and I know there is that saying that a verbal contract is as good as the paper its written on. So all an all. He’s screwing me in several ways. He practically ‘but kindly’ demands that I send several leads to him, to where he’ll make 50-100 on residential properties that are sent his way by ME.

The positions for goes as follows:
My dad has been in charge of the finances and working with the attorney.
My husband has been doing the computer work and finding leads
I have the bank account in my name, go to court, and use MY name on EVERYTHING. Everything that we do between the three of us is open for all 3 of us to see on paper. There is no money laundering or anything strange between us. We are all best friends.

I am just REALLY REALLY freaking stressed. Mainly because I am so young, and worry about my future. If I were to file bankruptcy couldnt I put the houses in a trust or my sisters name and bankrupty off the attorney? I know its ridiculous but we dont even know how much we owe him. It could be 50K or it could be 100K.

If the business fails, what precautions can I take before hand??? I may only have a month or two before it hits the fan….I was thinking of opening a second bank account at another bank, it case we go broke with the one, and get into check systems, at least i’d have another account, b/c once you go into it you cant open another account. Im so scared. And not that I want to make this a focal point of my storyline, but my dad has a 400K life insurance policy. He said that if something ‘happened to him’ and he died, we would get it. Im worried about our business, my ‘name’ in general, losing my family, my future….im stressed and need advice. On ANYTHING. Im young and fragile righ

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I personally own 4 properties. Each of these are in my name. I have a private loan set up from a hard money lender on each of these properties. one of them is my main residence. The others are rented out. I use the money from the renters to pay the lender. He is a nice guy, and will let the loan ride out as long as I need to. I’ve been working with him for years. I’ve borrowed on each of these homes about half of their value. But through the years, the prices/equity has been cut down, so now there is probably only about 10K profit on each house.

On top of these 4 houses, I have 3 homes that are currently in my name as well, but I am working on remodeling/reselling. My dilemma is complex. I have two other business partners. My dad, and my husband. We’ve never had problems working together, its just we’ve run into problems in the finance dept. Currently, we have a business account for the three of us. We only have enough money for our business to run for one more month. Currently, our bills run about 9K a month. We’re waiting for a house to sell, its valued at 80 but we’re trying to take ANYTHING that will keep us going…so maybe around 60/etc….I dont even know exactly what we’ll take for it, or if it’ll even sell b/c of the economy. We’re trying to pull a loan on it instead to keep things going. But the problem with that, is that we have to use the money we’re going to pull on a loan to remodel another property (we’ll call property #2). We already pulled an 80K loan on property #2 for 80K but its coming in two draws. We spent the first draw on business expenses to keep the business running, and as soon as we spend 20K on the house #2 (its a big time fixer in the napa, ca vacation community) we can get the second draw of 40K, of which, we will have to spend maybe 30K on the house.

All and all, this is the worst case scenario we’ve ever been in. We even have a small rinky dink house #3 tied into the loan of house #2 to protect the investors. House #3 is only worth about 20K….thats why we didnt mind backing it against the other one.

On top of worrying if we’re going to have enough money to survive financially, once we get the napa vacation house (#2) on the market, we dont even know if it will sell at a low/fair market price. We just want to get rid of the house and get rid of the loan and hope to keep business going with the bills.

Also where it gets weird, and concerning the bankruptcy talk….there is an attorney who I owe some money to. At first he was kind, we got along great, and he saw a lot of potential in myself, the business that I do. A few years ago I was needing money so he lent me 20K at 80% interest. I knew that where I placed the money would help me to continue working, and would be worth it in the long run. It was….its just, I havent paid him back yet, so he’s already made about 20K off of the loan, and im continuing to pay him 1,200 per month of interest. He tacked on an old attorney bill from his other firm, but at one point he said he discounted it, but now he’s charging me again. All and all, and please, without judgement of me or him, nothing has been written on paper, and I know there is that saying that a verbal contract is as good as the paper its written on. So all an all. He’s screwing me in several ways. He practically ‘but kindly’ demands that I send several leads to him, to where he’ll make 50-100 on residential properties that are sent his way by ME.

The positions for goes as follows:
My dad has been in charge of the finances and working with the attorney.
My husband has been doing the computer work and finding leads
I have the bank account in my name, go to court, and use MY name on EVERYTHING. Everything that we do between the three of us is open for all 3 of us to see on paper. There is no money laundering or anything strange between us. We are all best friends.

I am just REALLY REALLY freaking stressed. Mainly because I am so young, and worry about my future. If I were to file bankruptcy couldnt I put the houses in a trust or my sisters name and bankrupty off the attorney? I know its ridiculous but we dont even know how much we owe him. It could be 50K or it could be 100K.

If the business fails, what precautions can I take before hand??? I may only have a month or two before it hits the fan….I was thinking of opening a second bank account at another bank, it case we go broke with the one, and get into check systems, at least i’d have another account, b/c once you go into it you cant open another account. Im so scared. And not that I want to make this a focal point of my storyline, but my dad has a 400K life insurance policy. He said that if something ‘happened to him’ and he died, we would get it. Im worried about our business, my ‘name’ in general, losing my family, my future….im stressed and need advice. On ANYTHING. Im young and fragile righ

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a few months ago i was jobless and homeless and ended up in the hospital in a state that i was not a resident of and the hospital sent me to like a psych ward/rehab place and that place wouldnt release me because they had nowhere to release me to until they got a hold of my parents and my parents came and got me and i got two bills from the hospital and one bill from the other place and i have a job but i dont get many hours and there really arent many options for jobs where i live i made payment arrangements with the hospital for two bills and i can just barely make the payments each month and the other place didnt send a bill until just recently and its over ,000 and they wont give me a payment arrangement that works for me they want almost ,300 a month for 4 months which i cant do i make less then 0 a month right now since that payment arrangement doesnt work they want me to get a loan from a bank but i dont have a credit history and no one would cosign and i dont make enough money to afford another bill each month my mom says that i should just file for bankruptcy my parents dont have the money to loan me and refuse to cosign anything for me or really help me in any way i dont want to have to file for bankruptcy because i dont want bad credit to start my credit history and i was hoping to go to college in the next few years (which would require loans) im only 19 and i have a daughter whos 10 months (she lives with her dad – she was not with me when i was homeless and all of that) and i want to be able to set the best example for her as i can and ive already messed up so is bankruptcy the best option or does any one have any ideas on what i should do?

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I am 20 years old I live in a house with my boyfriend it is in his name but I paid for this house also, I was just wondering if anyone had ways to get a credit card? I went to my bank and asked and they want me to put my own money on a card for like almost 2 years and keep paying it back. I do not have that much money to pay on the card and then pay back constantly. I work in fast food but I do keep my bills paid, was just wondering if theres any good cards out there to apply for like a 300$ credit limit I want to start building my credit. Also My dad filed bankruptcy a year ago and he is starting to re build his credit can he cosign for me still? its so difficult doing it by yourself because my mother has bad credit so I cant have her cosign anything so I’m kind of stuck. And yes I’ve applied and kohls, fingerhut all these small places and got denied. Please any advice would be great! It would help out alot! I dont want a credit card to be immature, I want it for emergencies such as my car breaking down or for gas or bills.

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I lost my job in October, so about two months ago. I have been living off savings, family assistance, etc. I can no longer afford my 500/mo car payment plus my 120/mo car insurance. I contacted the finance company, but they don’t offer refinancing. To top everything else off my dad and cosigner filed bankruptcy, so they won’t even give me a extension. They said they cannot discuss the debt because my dad filed bankruptcy. Also I cannot pull a loan because the car has depreciated 8,000, and lenders won’t lend me more than a percentage which mine suceeds. They will only lend me the amount its worth. I know I am still liable for it. I have great credit I pay all my credit cards off. I am never late on payments. I just can no longer afford it. Please help me. Any suggestions? and how bad will this effect me if I surrender/it gets reposessed?
Also I am still young, so someday I would like to buy a house. Hopefully even another car sometime soon.

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We haven’t made any payments on it yet. My husband is the registered owner and his dad is the legal owner (since he cosigned), although we are going to ask his dad to register it in his name. We have only one other vehicle worth 00 and no other assets. We got the cycle to manage the fuel crisis since my husband has to commute, and we are barely managing right at the federal poverty level. I can’t imagine that any court would want to take and try to liquidate something that is still owned fully by the bank, right? We are filing bankruptcy because of huge medical bills that are way out of our range of ability to pay, due to a severe injury I suffered two years ago, which is in collections. We were served with summons a couple of days ago and are seriously considering filing for bankruptcy. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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My pops lost his job earlier this year due his boss’s stupidity managing the business not because of the recession. He has always been the one supporting the family with his job for so many years. I’m struggling to make ends meet with my piece of crap job myself then I am drowning in student loan debts and many others. My brother has a really good paying job working at a steel plant. Mom doesn’t work because she is on disability and never ever seriously worked when she was able to work except two jobs she had in my whole lifetime. That was nearly two decades ago. That is more hurt to the wound also. My brother gave my dad an option that maybe he should file for bankruptcy to bail himself out of the hardships the family is dealing with. I know nothing about bankruptcy nor how that would help him out. Only my brother knows about that since it was his idea.

My brother came to me tonight saying things will get tough here at home because he can’t continue pulling all the weight paying all the bills my dad used to pay. Even if I do step in and take my brother’s place keeping the family surviving, that is still not going to be any better. The reason is because I too will have to forever be stuck in this rut we are in as long as my dad is messed up. Dad is doing his best working a part time job and doing some his side business he has at home. The money he makes total is not enough. I have my own debts that needs to be paid off. I also want to be able to live my life the way I should being on my own. I am all grown up now and it is way past my time to move out and live my life like I wished and hoped for. I never wanted to be stuck at home growing older ever year. All I’m saying is that if my brother get to the point where he can no longer help out then that would put me in the position to keep this family afloat. I don’t mind doing it, but it is not something I can continue doing for the rest of my life just for the sake of keeping all the debts paid on time.
David most of my debt came from student loans and car payments on an older used model, car insurance, etc. My job is crap because it does not pay enough to live on. Yes my hardwork getting a degree has gone to waste. I’m not getting any luck finding work related to me degree or any other work.

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My husband filed bankruptcy a few months back and we are looking into our options to rebuild his credit and I was thinking about a secured credit card but my dad says that’s a bad idea because the last thing we need is a credit card and if were gonna do anything we should go to a furniture store to buy a few things we need from there. What would be the best thing for his credit. I know he is going to get a high interest rate regardless.

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My dad was telling me about 3 different kinds of bankruptcy. Can anyone explain these to me? He told me about when he filed bankruptcy, but that was a LONG time ago, so I was just curious as to if anyone could explain the new laws associated with bankruptcy and the different types. Thanks.

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I finally left when I couldn’t take his drinking anymore. He is in the house and he loves the house — he should have it. I am just wondering what would seem fair in a divorce settlement on it. I know he can’t borrow against it right now to pay me off, as we are in the midst of filing bankruptcy — but we have had the house for over 16 years and I am looking for something fair for both of us when it comes to the division of this property. Our kids are all grown and on their own so there is no child custody issues. We also own shares in a business together and I would like to see him keep half the shares. I would like to stay on his medical coverage but am not seeking any spousal support — even though he made 45,000.00 last year and I made less than 8,000.00 Is there a lawyer online that would be willing to advise me as I file my divorce online? I don’t have any additional money to actually obtain an attorney and I don’t want all the attorney costs. I just want my life back.
My children understand why I left, however, they do not understand why I want the divorce — since they don’t want to deal with the option that someday I may meet someone else…this is the attitude of my grown children. The call thier dad homer and say he is like a big brother to them.
My children understand why I left, however, they do not understand why I want the divorce — since they don’t want to deal with the option that someday I may meet someone else…this is the attitude of my grown children. The call thier dad homer and say he is like a big brother to them.

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If you’re representing someone who has become bankrupt, they have no money!! So how do bankruptcy lawyers get paid?? I dated a guy whose dad was a bankruptcy lawyer and he had money out the ass!!! I never saw him to ask b/c he was always working and I didn’t feel comfortable asking the guy or his mom. If your client has no money, how can they pay you??

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My life wasn’t so peachy when I was young. My family went from the Leave it Beavers to Tragedy real quick. But to start with In my early childhood; I had a great family life.

Because of an accident, my father lost control his mind we went bankrupt during his many visits in and out of the state hospital.
He had constant hallucinations and an altered state of reality. He did many things "unaware" that shamed himself, and all his family. The doctors tried very hard to help regain control of reality but ultimately he ended up as a permanent mental disability case.

As a kid in school some of the embarrassing things my father did made me a constant target of bully’s. I took no pride in fighting but had to almost everyday just to make the 2 mile walk I made home everyday after school. Just punk kids and their lack of knowledge, trying to make a name for themself. It seemed like the more I beat up defending my self, the more I had to fight. To this day, I never have lost a fight. But I never started any either. So anyways..

My mother lost hope in my dad and was not the better woman. She left him because she said it was just too much to deal with. The varies step-dads that were in and out of her life gave me EVERY reason to HATE someone.

This HATE could have consumed me but my Lord had given me his strength. Strength above the Hate. Strength in Love

Eventually my mom found a man with some stability and money, but by then I was burned out by the previous bad choices.
So, after reaching an age where I could choose to take care of my father….15….I left my mom and
became my fathers father.

He only collected 16k a year from social security so we were very poor. We lived in a very small trailer and I remember how difficult it was to be around kids with "Normal" lives. Some of the parents mis-judged me. And even many of my friends underestimated personality and God given abilities.

These, not being known at that time, by terminology were "Gifts of the Spirit" But none the less God was teaching me even while I was unaware. His presence was always with me.

It might seems that all these troubles could have pulled me away from our LOVING HOLY FATHER, but instead it brought me closer to him. In my trails, he taught me about Love..patience…and service…..and respect. These trails affirmed for me that when you need God the MOST… You don’t have to look very hard, because if you believe what He did for you on the Cross….then he is always inside you. You do not have to rely on your own strength. His is within you. Since my childhood, my living testimony has be used to bring several people to the Lord. Can you think on anything else this story can teach others.

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I am in my last year of law school, still searching for a post-graduation job. When my parents filed for bankruptcy, they were allowed to stop paying on their home morgage (around 00 a month) under the Bankruptcy Code. This "automatic stay" has been in place since my dad filed, a total of 6 months. Hence, for 6 months my parents have been living in their house that is about to be foreclosed by the bankruptcy courts without paying a morgage. You think they would have saved money for moving right? NOPE. They don’t have a dime!
I am a LOT wiser with my money. I have a 00 mutual fund account, over 00 in savings, 2 jobs in which I place "extra" money in money market account.
They have paid my car note and insurance ever since I have been in law school. I feel that I should help them with their down payment on their new house but I am scared because they are not financially responsible and I need that money to pay for bar dues, bar classes, the bar itself, moving expenses, etc.

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