I am married to a man 14 years older than me and we have been married almost ten years & I married him at age 20. Through the ten years he was very mean, cold, and aloof but I had my reasons for staying mainly because I had a sick child with him and no help or place to go. I never stopped trying to work on my marriage & I never cheated. As our ten year anniversary approaches I am seriously considering leaving now. Although, he isn’t as monstrous as he was, he is still not loving or affectionate but more so nicer than what he used to be.

I thought things had gotten so much better between us & that there was hope. I stuck with this man through everything from him just filing bankruptcy to him being diagnosed with high blood pressure. I have catered to him and fought off bill collectors & so much more! However tonight I discovered something very hurtful.
He began attacking me earlier in the day by saying I don’t clean the house and this and that. To make a long story short I figured out how to open his work phone that he locks and I checked his text messages just to find a woman saying good morning sunshine last night was great and this morning was OMG with a smiley icon next to it. He was home all night and this morning but he knew the person because the number was programmed into his phone under a business name WALMART. Then another woman wrote and said that she can’t let 2009 go by without telling him she luvs him and how much he means to her life. He did not even delete it so it must have meant something to him. After giving my all I think its time to say screw him and his finance’s, his blood pressure and his whorish ways. I want to finally live for my child and myself. I have never lived before and now I know how much I don’t mean to him: )

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I would like to get my husband’s business name secured and him have insurance, etc so when he does side work, he is insured, etc. I am just wondering if it’s okay to go ahead and set up an LLC if I am filing for bankruptcy soon? I don’t even know if he’ll do any work under this name before we file but I just wanted to secure the name, etc. Will they frown upon this even if the business doesn’t make any money? We want to do everything we can to pick up our income since obviously (provided by the fact of filing BK) are struggling tremendously? I just don’t want creditors attacking our business? I wish I didn’t have to file BK but we are left with no other options. We can barely afford our home anymore so I can’t pay these poor people back. My husband’s pay got cut in half several months ago and there was no warning at all. We are lucky at this point that he has a job at all compared to many others out there. I am hoping this side work will help us in the end and potentially even not be able to file BK and make settlements. Sorry…that is O/T. Do you think I should go for an LLC…it costs to file it as such and has many benefits. Thank you.

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