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My dad owe ,000 to credit cards, lines of credit etc..
It all started when we bought a house. My dad was the only one working. After two months purchasing the house, my dad lost his job. So, hoping the he’ll find another job, my dad kept on paying the mortgage, property tax etc from his credit cards.
He did not find any job. My mom found a job but not a good paying job.
After 3 years, we couldn’t afford it and sold the house.
Right now, we live in an apartment. My dad is diabetic and has other medical problems and can’t find any job. Also, his language difficulty is preventing him from finding a job.
My mom works and its enough just for rent and food for our family.
My dad keeps getting phone calls from credit companies and stuff asking him to pay. My mom gives him 50 or 100 bucks per month to pay his credit cards but she can’t do this every month because she only earn that extra if she works extra hours. She has arthritis and her doctor told she shouldn’t work much.
My parents’ first language is not English, hence my dad has difficulties with English.
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Posted September 4th, 2011 in Bankruptcy Q and A. Tagged: 3 years, apartment, arthritis, credit cards, dad, finding a job, first language, good paying job, language difficulty, medical problems, mom works, mortgage, parents, phone calls, property tax.
I have bad hypochondria. I developed this 3 years ago and it’s pretty bad. I’m constantly fearing that I will catch some disease and die or that I will move my body or eat wrong and choke to death or break an internal organ. Most of my fear is of having a heart related problem. I don’t go out anymore and I stay inside so that nothing bad happens, like getting in a car accident. If someone mentions an accident or death of a loved one it makes me both sad and very scared and I have a panic attack. I spend hours looking up symptoms online and I now have to file bankruptcy because of medical bills for doctors visits for minor illnesses when I didn’t have any health insurance. I want to go teach english abroad for a year but I don’t know how I can when I can’t even barely leave the house outside of work. I’m afraid I’ll get ill and die in a foreign country.
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Posted August 3rd, 2011 in When To File Bankruptcy. Tagged: 3 years, bankruptcy, car accident, death of a loved one, doctors visits, fear, health insurance, heart, insurance, internal organ, medical bills, minor illnesses, panic attack.
My husband and I have been trying to buy a house for 2 years. We both pay our bills on time and make decent money. The problem is that a few years ago he co-signed for a house for his sister. She moved out and quit paying for it and no one informed him until 3 days before it was supposed to foreclose in his name. They said we had to pay ,000 when he only cosigned originally for ,000 or the mortgage company was going to sue. She had put all her credit card debts and her car loan on the mortgage. So he filed bankruptcy to avoid being sued for ,000. Now all debt and credit is in my name which brought down my credit score and he has a bankruptcy on his credit report. We can’t seem to find any bank that will loan us the money to buy a house because they say my debt versus income to not good enough and his name can’t be on the house because of the bankruptcy. What can we do to buy a house?
It’s been 3 years since the bankruptcy. They did try to contact us many times, but they were mailing it to the address that he cosigned for. We lived somewhere else and didn’t know his sister moved out. They finally found us last minute. He had signed when she did refinancing at one time, but he he didn’t realize how much it was for and didn’t think his own sister would screw him over.
The worst part about it is that even with a bankruptcy he still has an awesome credit score and hardly any debt. He always has been very responsible when it comes to paying bills. One lender at our bank knows that we always pay off our loans, but he can’t seem to convince the other guys that don’t know us that they are safe to loan us the money for a house. So some advice to people: don’t ever cosign for anyone. Even if you think you can trust them. It gets honest people like us into a lot of trouble.
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Posted July 21st, 2011 in Bankruptcy Q and A. Tagged: 3 years, bankruptcy, car loan, credit card debts, credit report, credit score, decent money, last minute, loans, money to buy a house, mortgage company.
Bankruptcy was filed in Dec. 2003, will the attorney be able to erase this because it was in the original bankruptcy? Would the attorney have recieved paperwork stating there was a lien? My ex never recieved any notice, we were informed when we tried to refinance almost 3 years after the final bankruptcy.
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Posted July 17th, 2011 in Bankruptcy Q and A. Tagged: 3 years, bankruptcy, paperwork.
Okay my question is if i file for bankruptcy will i stop getting collection notices and calls from a collection agency.
See my case is i have a kidney transplant and when i moved to Seattle WA 3 years ago. The insurance here didn’t want to cover me for my medication(because they were to expensive) and doctor visits. So i got a debt from the hospital of almost 00 dollars. But right now i haven’t work in almost a month and the agent told me that if i don’t give a payment their going to take me to court.
What should i do? Will filing for bankruptcy help?
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Posted July 13th, 2011 in When To File Bankruptcy. Tagged: 3 years, collection notices, doctor visits, filing for bankruptcy, insurance, kidney transplant, medication, seattle wa.
3 years ago I filed bankruptcy. Since then I have not incurred any more debt. My credit score has risen to about 630. My problem is that included in the bankruptcy was a default on an apartment lease. My question is, when they check my credit will they see the details of my bankruptcy, or will they just be able to see that I filed? The broken lease was over 7 years ago. I want to move out, but am afraid my past mistakes will prevent it.
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Posted July 11th, 2011 in Bankruptcy Q and A. Tagged: 3 years, apartment, bankruptcy, credit score.
I have been married almost 3 years. I have 2 children under 2 yrs old. My husband has a pill problem and is a thief. He has stolen my money so many times I have had to file bankruptcy. I can’t have credit cards, a checking account, or anything. My husband always begs me to come back and I do because I love him. Earlier this year, he stole the last 0 I had and bought pills and wrecked my car. We couldn’t even pay the utilities on our house. (well, I couldn’t pay them, my husband doesn’t have a job.) So he moved in with his dad and I moved in with mine. Recently after we moved in with our dads, I found out I was pregnant. My husband got kicked out of his dads house for stealing and being on pills. He had nowhere to go so I let him stay with me to help me with our newborn daughter. Last week he was on pills again and stole some money from my dad and me so my dad kicked him out. Every time this happens he says he is done with the pills and it won’t happen again. I always take him back and this time I said he cannot stay with my dad and I. We have a house that I am still making payments on but since he doesn’t have a job I can’t pay for the house, utilities, and groceries by myself. Thats why I’m living with my dad so my kids will have water and heat. He is now telling me that he is completely done with pills. His mom is going to put him in therapy and he is going to apply for jobs and possibly go to the army. I do love him and that would be fine but I’m afraid I can’t trust him. My parents are begging me to get a divorce. But even if I do I know I will still see him alot because of the kids and that will be hard for me. When we got married I knew he already had 1 kid which was fine but since we got married he found out he has another and next month he is getting a DNA test for another, which that is really hard for me to deal with. I know he didn’t cheat on me. But if he does get a job, all his money will go to child support for these other kids? He has been put in jail more than once for back child support and is also being questioned for some residential break ins. I am afraid if I leave him I won’t find anyone else and if I did find someone else my husband would make it hell for me. I’m sure it sounds like a no brainer I wish I could turn off my feelings but I really do love this guy too much. I just wanted an outside opinion from someone that doesn’t know us. Thanks in advance
I do not have a drug problem, and when he is on drugs I do keep the kids away from him.
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Posted May 24th, 2011 in When To File Bankruptcy. Tagged: 3 years, army, bankruptcy, checking account, child support, credit cards, dad, dads, divorce, dna test, groceries, job, jobs, mom, money, newborn daughter, parents, pills, thief, water and heat.
My husband and I filed bankruptcy 3 years ago and have two years left until we’re discharged. I checked our credit report and FICO scores (his is 685 and mine is 620). Will we have to wait until we have been discharged to try and purchase a house? We already own a home, but with three children, we have grown out of our present home and desperately need a bigger one! My husband and I are in a MUCH better financial position now, the only thing is our bankruptcy filing (Ch. 13). Also, can we pay it off early by making double payments?
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Posted May 15th, 2011 in Bankruptcy Q and A. Tagged: 3 years, bankruptcy filing, credit report, double payments, fico scores, financial position.
I have a few credit cards and a car payment in a debt consolidation. It isn’t moving as fast as I would like. I haven’t had or driven the car for 3 years. The car loan is under my and my sister’s name. How would it affect her if I where to file bankruptcy?
The car has been totaled out and sold at an auction. The insurance didn’t pay.
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Posted April 11th, 2011 in Bankruptcy Q and A. Tagged: 3 years, auction, bankruptcy, car loan, car payment, credit cards, debt consolidation, insurance.
I have found conflicting information. Some sites say you can purchase a home anytime after a bankruptcy discharge as long as your credit score has been rebuilt but other sites say you have to wait at least 2-3 years. Which is it?
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Posted March 6th, 2011 in Bankruptcy Q and A. Tagged: 3 years, bankruptcy discharge, credit score.
I was laid off in February of 2009 and have not been able to find a good job since. I have been without medical insurance for almost 3 years and have to pay out of pocket for a required medication costing roughly 0 per month. I have moved back into my mother’s house (I’m 26) and I am overdrawn on my bank accounts every week just from paying off my car, my storage (I moved home from another state since I could no longer afford rent,) my medicine, groceries, and then attempting to make payments on my debt. I have spoken with a credit counseling organization (MMI) and they have offered me a plan by which I would pay them about 0 per month. This plan would entail 0 per month for debt payment, 5 for car payment, 5 for my student loan, 0 for medicine and 5 for storage of all of my possessions. This is 95 per month. It does not include food. It does not include emergency preparation. And it is also 0 over my monthly income.
Issue #1: I need a new job. On average, I apply for 20-30 jobs PER DAY. I have been told that, since the economy went bust, EVERYONE checks the credit of a potential employee. Obviously my current poor credit is enough to render me unhireable. If I declare bankruptcy, how much worse can (will?) my job hunting situation be? I currently temp at a front desk for just 30 hrs a week, no benefits.
Issue #2: I need to be able to move out of my mother’s house. She is very kind to have opened her home to me when I am in such need, and I try very hard to stay out of her way, but she makes it very clear that it’s a huge burden on her to have me around (I know she is right, but it makes it no easier). She is also 100% against me declaring bankruptcy, not only for the impact it will have on my life but for the stigma it will bear on hers. I need to be able to have my own place again. But, my current credit is so poor AND declaring bankruptcy would remain for 10 years on my credit report, that no one would possibly rent to me. Which is less devastating to a potential landlord? Terrible credit and a ridiculous debt-to-income ratio, or a recent bankruptcy claim?
Issue #3: My car is currently worth about k less than what I still owe. I have tried to sell it back to the dealership, they charged me k and even when I left the car with them, they immediately called me back to pick it up because apparently something in the undercarriage was repaired wrong (oh and getting my k back was a real hoot, let me tell you.) It has already been repo-ed once and I had to pay money I didn’t have to get it back. I have tried selling in private forums, I have tried refinancing, I don’t know what else I can do. No one will buy a car worth almost ten grand less than they’re paying. I want very much to keep it, but I can’t afford it. And yes, simply letting it go would COST ME MONEY. Dave Ramsay says, "sell the car." What would Dave Ramsay suggest in this situation?
Issue #4: I have no savings. If I declare bankruptcy, I will be living off of my income alone (my savings deteriorated during my time when I was unemployed, after which my debt increased exponentially. HOWEVER. If I declare bankruptcy and can divide my piffle paycheck so that at least SOME of it can go towards savings, then at the end of ten years when the bankruptcy falls off my credit report I will have something, instead of nothing. Or just…more of the nothing I have right now.
Issue #5: I can’t pay these bills. (see the price outline in the first paragraph.) Won’t these companies just sue me anyway, if I don’t declare?
Look. I love and respect my mother (who is not a financier.) I do not want to make her sad because her daughter went bankrupt before the age of 30. But let’s be realistic here. How much worse could my situation POSSIBLY GET if I declare, file for Chapter 7 and get my debts forgiven so that I may begin to rebuild.
I would very much appreciate ANY input, on a REALISTIC, REASONABLE alternative to me filing for bankruptcy. I have listened to "Financial University" by Dave Ramsey about 1000x and I’ve read Suze Orman’s books and seen her show.
It would bring me so much comfort, and I would so appreciate it, if my peers on yahoo who have experience or knowledge with this kind of thing could reach out and give me their honest, informed opinions.
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Posted February 25th, 2011 in Bankruptcy Q and A. Tagged: 3 years, bust, car payment, credit counseling, debt payment, declaring bankruptcy, emergency preparation, front desk, good job, groceries, issue 1, job hunting, landlord, medical insurance, mmi, new job, poor credit, possessions, stigma, student loan.
3 years ago my mom co signed for me when i bought a car. i have a less than 2 years left to pay on it and i am happy with my payments and interest rate. i have paid for my car on my own and havent ever been late with a payment. i know nothing about refiniancing or anything and im not sure what i should do. i just know that i need to get her name off my lease so that it doesnt show up on my credit when my parents go to file banckruptcy. please help!
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Posted December 24th, 2010 in When To File Bankruptcy. Tagged: 3 years, interest rate, mom, parents.
Hi all,
My wife and I have been trying to have a child for over 3 years. While she has been pregnant twice, both experiences were quite traumatic for both of us. Her first pregnancy ended with a miscarriage at 5 months, and the second pregnancy was an ectopic pregnancy which landed her in the emergency room. We both really want a child, especially a child of our own, but I just don’t want to cause any more physical and emotional distress on my wife. We have decided to look at the alternative which is adoption. Primarily we’re only interested in the adoption of a new born. We began to do some research and the cost of an adoption seems staggering! We’re not interested in an international adoption either. I would like to get some feedback from other couples which have successfully adopted a new born. How much did it actually cost you (after the tax credit and any employer adoption benefits). Was it really around K!!
I can understand the attorney fees and medical costs for the birth mother, but k? It also seems that the adoption process is quite complicated (home study, back ground check, family history, etc), I do understand why those things are required, but I would assume those things should be required of ANY couple wanting to have a child, not just adoptive parents.
Anyway, I am really interested to see how much adopting a new born ended up costing you.
Thanks so much for your feedback! Our combined income is around 0K a year, we own two homes (fully paid), so we’re not poor, and though we really want a child, we don’t want to end up declaring bankruptcy to have one.
Thanks so much!
Jason & Mindy
@PIP – If you haven’t adopted or even intend to adopt, you’re not qualified to answer my question, nor am I interested in your opinion. Your "answer" had nothing to do with my question. In the future, I would recommend that you read an individual’s question carefully before answering.
@Toreejon – Much like the other person who "answered" my question. I am sorry that you had a bad experience as an adoptee, but no where in my question do I ask for an adoptee’s opinion. I have friends who are adopted and have no longing for their natural mother and father.
@Sunny – I did not ask for your opinion on adoption. I wanted answers from adoptive parents. The fact that we really want a child of our own, doesn’t take anything away from us completely loving an adopted child. This so called "bond" between child and natural parents is a myth. This bond is developed as the result of the relationship with the child’s parents (i.e. the parents who raised the child). There is absolutely no evidence that suggests there is a "natural" bond between a child and a natural parent if the child was not raised by those parents. As to your point of DNA, it is completely irrelevant. Unless you’re Einstein or Mozart, your DNA is nothing to write home about. I can’t believe you equate adopting a child with that of buying a car. You need some serious help. Adoption is a very unselfish act. We want to adopt not to make up for the "child we might have had" but to rather to share or love and blessings with a child in need. We don’t HAVE to adopt, we want to.
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Posted December 8th, 2010 in Bankruptcy Q and A. Tagged: 3 years, 5 months, adoption benefits, adoptive parents, attorney fees, back ground check, birth mother, couples, declaring bankruptcy, ectopic pregnancy, emergency room, emotional distress, family history, home study, international adoption, medical costs, mindy, pip, second pregnancy, tax credit.
Here’s my situation. I graduated from college in December 05 and believe it or not, I have not found a full time, good paying job yet. Yeah, I believe I just wasted money and energy on nothing.
Anyways, I’m working a part time job and make approx 0 a month. I have ,000 in credit card debt, most of which I’m still paying from when I was in college 3 years ago (books, food, so on) I have ,000 in student loans, ,000 in medical bills, and it seems everytime i make a payment, it goes to waste because the interests keep rising. I even pay more than the minimum payment. If a credit card is lets say minimum, I will pay about 5, but it’s still not good enough cause the interests will raise that back.
I can’t keep going like this. My credit score is crappy so I can’t get a consolidation loan to pay all of it all.
Would I be able to file for bankruptcy? I have tried everything to get out of debts. I don’t charge anything to my credit cards any longer, but it is still that bad.
What should I do?
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Posted December 5th, 2010 in When To File Bankruptcy. Tagged: 3 years, bankruptcy, consolidation loan, credit card debt, credit cards, credit score, debts, full time, good paying job, medical bills, minimum payment, money, part time job, student loans.
i dont really understand how bankruptcy works im 20 yrs old and i am stuck in a bind where i have to. i was in the army for 3 years when i got out of the army i had no where to go so i moved in with a friend i let my car go to the bank but i still owe them so i am going to file for bankruptcy i owe like 22 000 left on the car and i have collections to like 4 places i was one of those teenagers that blew all their money and let it get out of hand, i am currently unemployed but i want to file for a chapter 7 bankruptcy but every where i call its like 1000 dollars and i dont have that kind of money so i kinda need to know what i should do???
thanks
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Posted December 2nd, 2010 in When To File Bankruptcy. Tagged: 3 years, army, bind, chapter 7 bankruptcy, collections, money, teenagers.
I was laid off in February of 2009 and have not been able to find a good job since. I have been without medical insurance for almost 3 years and have to pay out of pocket for a required medication costing roughly 0 per month. I have moved back into my mother’s house (I’m 26) and I am overdrawn on my bank accounts every week just from paying off my car, my storage (I moved home from another state since I could no longer afford rent,) my medicine, groceries, and then attempting to make payments on my debt. I have spoken with a credit counseling organization (MMI) and they have offered me a plan by which I would pay them about 0 per month. This plan would entail 0 per month for debt payment, 5 for car payment, 5 for my student loan, 0 for medicine and 5 for storage of all of my possessions. This is 95 per month. It does not include food. It does not include emergency preparation. And it is also 0 over my monthly income.
Issue #1: I need a new job. On average, I apply for 20-30 jobs PER DAY. I have been told that, since the economy went bust, EVERYONE checks the credit of a potential employee. Obviously my current poor credit is enough to render me unhireable. If I declare bankruptcy, how much worse can (will?) my job hunting situation be? I currently temp at a front desk for just 30 hrs a week, no benefits.
Issue #2: I need to be able to move out of my mother’s house. She is very kind to have opened her home to me when I am in such need, and I try very hard to stay out of her way, but she makes it very clear that it’s a huge burden on her to have me around (I know she is right, but it makes it no easier). She is also 100% against me declaring bankruptcy, not only for the impact it will have on my life but for the stigma it will bear on hers. I need to be able to have my own place again. But, my current credit is so poor AND declaring bankruptcy would remain for 10 years on my credit report, that no one would possibly rent to me. Which is less devastating to a potential landlord? Terrible credit and a ridiculous debt-to-income ratio, or a recent bankruptcy claim?
Issue #3: My car is currently worth about k less on what I still owe. I have tried to sell it back to the dealership, they charged me k and even when I left the car with them, they immediately called me back to pick it up because apparently something in the undercarriage was repaired wrong (oh and getting my k back was a real hoot, let me tell you.) It has already been repo-ed once and I had to pay money I didn’t have to get it back. I have tried selling in private forums, I have tried refinancing, I don’t know what else I can do. No one will buy a car worth almost ten grand less than they’re paying. I want very much to keep it, but I can’t afford it. And yes, simply letting it go would COST ME MONEY. Dave Ramsay says, "sell the car." What would Dave Ramsay suggest in this situation?
Issue #4: I have no savings. If I declare bankruptcy, I will be living off of my income alone (my savings deteriorated during my time when I was unemployed, after which my debt increased exponentially. HOWEVER. If I declare bankruptcy and can divide my piffle paycheck so that at least SOME of it can go towards savings, then at the end of ten years when the bankruptcy falls off my credit report I will have something, instead of nothing. Or just…more of the nothing I have right now.
Issue #5: I can’t pay these bills. (see the price outline in the first paragraph.) Won’t these companies just sue me anyway, if I don’t declare?
Look. I love and respect my mother (who is not a financier.) I do not want to make her sad because her daughter went bankrupt before the age of 30. But let’s be realistic here. How much worse could my situation POSSIBLY GET if I declare, file for Chapter 7 and get my debts forgiven so that I may begin to rebuild.
I would very much appreciate ANY input, on a REALISTIC, REASONABLE alternative to me filing for bankruptcy. I have listened to "Financial University" by Dave Ramsey about 1000x and I’ve read Suze Orman’s books and seen her show.
It would bring me so much comfort, and I would so appreciate it, if my peers on yahoo who have experience or knowledge with this kind of thing could reach out and give me their honest, informed opinions.
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Posted December 1st, 2010 in Bankruptcy Q and A. Tagged: 3 years, bust, car payment, credit counseling, debt payment, declaring bankruptcy, emergency preparation, front desk, good job, groceries, issue 1, job hunting, landlord, medical insurance, mmi, new job, poor credit, possessions, stigma, student loan.
I have in the last 3 years has a VERY significant decrease inincome and am seeking to file for Chapter 7 Bankruptcy. I have spoken with several attorneys who have all determined that I do qualify to file for Chapter 7… My question is this… Is an attorney required? What is the least expensive way to file for bankruptcy? I ask because the least expensive quote I received was approximately 00 which I cannot afford. If I could afford a chunk payment of 00 I think I’d be more likely to pay off my debts than to file bankruptcy…yah know? Anyone have any suggestions?
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Posted November 18th, 2010 in Bankruptcy Q and A. Tagged: 3 years, attorneys, chapter 7 bankruptcy, chunk, debts.
Income is steady (same employer for 3 years) and sufficient to handle a reasonable mortgage…had insurance when the medical bills occured (serious health issue)…will a lender overlook or should I file bankruptcy and wait it out?
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Posted October 31st, 2010 in When To File Bankruptcy. Tagged: 3 years, health issue, insurance, medical bills, mortgage, serious health, should I file bankruptcy.
I have asked a similar question about this and I just want to see more opinions on the subject.
I am going to be turning 20 in 2 more months, I have a stable job with a stable pay, I don’t own a car just yet, I currently live with my parents and I should finish college within about a year. (I’ll be majoring in Polysomnography).
I started saving money a long while back, maybe a year. My boyfriend (of 3 years) lives out in California while I live in Illinois and he is still going to college and will be for a while to earn his Master’s degree. I would really love to move out towards his end and rent an appartment. In saying that, he would live with me while still going to college and I go to my work somewhat close by.
Now here are my questions and I have quite a few:
1) How much on a months rent (as an estimate) and bills, etc. does it cost for a small appartment?
2) How much money should I have (another good estimate) to have before moving anywhere?
3) Should I buy a car before moving anywhere? [or] Is it not a good idea to buy a car and rent an appartment all at once? (ANY advice on purchasing a car I’ll take).
4) I’ve heard from some people that you can open another bank account and keep it as your "emergency" account, just in case if you run out of cash in your original account. How does that all of work and how can I create one?
5) How long is the process of moving out to rent a place take?
6) Any tips or advice on how to rent an appartment, car transportation, money management, etc., that I should really know about when stepping out into the living world?
**Also note: I DON’T want anyone saying that I’m doing this for my boyfriend or that I’m rushing into things. Either way, I’m doing this to be with him, practice living on my own and try out certain job areas that will give me work experience. So it’s basically for my own good and learning experience.
**I don’t want to mention how much I make a month on my job or how much I have currently considering that’s all my own privacy. But I will take examples of how much I SHOULD be making a month and how much I SHOULD have total to be stable enough to move out.
~ So many pleases and thank yous to you all. If I could I would answer you all as the "best answer" if I could if I’m really impressed with all your advice. So I repeat, I’ll take ANY kind of advice and/or story examples on how to live on my own without going into debt or getting bankrupt. (That is my biggest concern) I would want to move out within a year or two and hopefully I can if I play my cards right and just save save save SAVE my money. Thanks again and please help! ~
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Posted October 28th, 2010 in Bankruptcy Q and A. Tagged: 3 years, appartment, car transportation, going to college, how much money, learning experience, money management, own a car, parents, purchasing a car, saving money, stable job.
Question about misinformed collection agencies?
After filing personal bankruptcy 13 years ago, my friend got a call about 3 years ago from a collection agency (called NARS) and said that my friend could pay a lower price of over 0 to get rid of the debt she was in. The problem is the store that this agency said this person owed on, was listed on the bankruptcy report and declared as discharged along with all the other credit cards that was on the bankruptcy file. This friend of mine kept telling them this and thought she got her message through, as the phone calls stopped. All she had was the first paper from the file the court gave her and nothing else to prove but heard nothing until about 2 months ago, when the calls started up again. This person has been distraught after her husband passed away (you all know of course that no one cares about that). Anyway the entire bankruptcy file was purchased for and a certified letter that cost over was sent to NARS (National Asset Recovery Services) along with a bill for . They got their verification that the store in question was indeed on the file but of course, she knew they wouldn’t pay up. Keep in mind that someone who is knowledgable said that the collection agency and/or the one who sold this owed money report is required to obtain this bankruptcy file themselves. Here comes the real question I’d like to ask. I was told that whoever sold this person’s records to a collection agency didn’t know this store was on the file (idiots) and they should have purchased the bankruptcy report themselves and so she feels strongly that they (NARS) should pay back/reimburse what she had to pay (to prove that she didn’t owe anyone). The store was called and they said that the agency is the one that wants the money, the store doesn’t have a problem with getting their money back. Would it be in the best interest of my friend to sue to get the money back from purchasing the file which cost and for the certified mail for to make sure that NARS received the copy? Maybe the BBB could be contacted. Or the Attorney General. Living on Widow Benefits doesn’t take in a lot of money and NARS caused stress while my friend was taking care of her dieing husband. Just wondering what would you do? Only serious answers are requested. Thank you for reading and taking time to consider this dilemma.
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Posted October 16th, 2010 in When To File Bankruptcy. Tagged: 13 years, 3 years, asset recovery services, best interest, certified mail, collection agencies, credit cards, filing personal bankruptcy, money report, national asset recovery services.