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My parents passed away and left their house to my sister and I. I wanted to buy her half but the sale is bogged down at the title company because she filed bankruptcy 10 years ago and her home was foreclosed on. She owes a certain amount plus interest. Does she have to pay this? Does this mean there is a lien on our house?
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Posted May 12th, 2011 in Bankruptcy Q and A. Tagged: 10 years, bankruptcy, parents, title company.
I currently live in NH/ over 10 years. I own a mobile home and a car. Due to health reasomd I will be moving tp a warmer climate. Yhe house is in my name and PIF as it is old and does qualify for moygage so I pay my parents/ The house will be sold and the money will be a swap for a house where I relocate and technically is for my parents for loians to get me by during litigation. Much of my debt credit cards as I was in a MVA a few years ago by underinsured and dishonest motorrist- cc charges were fort medical bills and if used for purchases cash was tight and some medfical bills wete paid in cash so other needs where charged. I think I have 1 student loan nvut thought all were paid 12 years ago/ Loan is about 1200 cc debt is about 120000 and a few thousand of medical billls are remaining. I did wotk after accident but had surgery from said approximately 2 years after. I did my best paying off debts incured from 2005-2007 but after the surgeries which were kinda influenced by my lawyet as he enphasized need for medical end point even though I expressed there is no medical endpoint. Well my climb to pay devts started again after surgeries and additional disorder called Rsd. I did have LTD but they never paid as a doctor was paid off to fabrricate my evaluation when my job did not like what 2 other doctors concluded, which one of yhese 2 my work sent me to. After aan error on Socoal Securoty ceases ny income for 2.5 years, the feds granted the claim for SSDI. Besides stress of litogation, no income, age of digerative disorders SSDI was granted with an apology of the sort. I akso annulled a marriage within this time leaving me with deby from spouse who commited domestic violence on me and he chose to live off of me. I was also robbed of 5 figures of assets and lost alot of electrical utilities from lightning. I salvaged what I could and did not complrte insurance clai, as briefed to ageny as I was loosing hope and in alot of pain physically abd mentallyt. Years of litigation, paying medical bills, healy
th, etc I started loosing hiope and addressing many issues became to taxing but I did what I could and blockrd out what I couldn’t deal with mentally and financially. My parents lent me money to get by. I alsoi have 1 speeding ticket that I was under thje impression was dismissed. Well I got a letter recenrtly that stated it had veen 3 years and threat tp revoke my license, I alsp have a scar ocroissd my face that is a constant remonder of somr horrific times which will codt about 4000 to fix. I can’t handle another winterin NH as it is compromising my healyj and litigation has and cointinues to keep me from mty lovrf onrs. If my parents pass qwhile waitimhg for the litigation , it would devistate me. Additionally more medical problemsa have arisen due to tjhe weather, stress, and afe. I also have apptoximately 10000 in legal fees from the lawyer for ssdI who did not do his job, I did hid jpb and he wiithdrew representation as I mentioned consideration but planned to dicuss our relationship before making a decision and he wityhdrew vefore our meeting , as I ended up in hospital that day buit left vm in evening avout hospitalization. When I talked to him the next day he informed me that he notified social Security of his withdrawal. SS was one who informed me of incomplete and questionable lawyers effort and mentioned I shpuld consider terminating him. They did thos as a favor as they technically were to correspond with my council but they were quite hekpful and confirmed my concerns of lawyers incompleteness. Well, now he wants 6000 dollars for 1 days work/ I was ythe adjudicator with the congresswoman, Social Security judge and doctors. O had already elvaluated with states doctors, submitted 380 pages of medicsl records, went to 1sr hearing, filed an appel as my doctor still did not feel comfortable that it was safe for me to work. SSI;\ost appeal forms but it was emtered om ytheir computer that it wsd recieved 9 mpnths earlier per protocol and admitted error on theirr part;. such action hindered rehabilitation, medical treatment, quality of life, and blew my immaculate credit, and eventually had to cxcl health insurance and homeowneras insurance. If I fplr ch 7 or 13 and have to appear im court wiyh drawm out litigstiom I would noy file in NH I wpuld opt to fil whrm I move. Litigsyion eith driver from mvs or duit sgsimdt dtste id yoo much negstive emergy smd five years of my life here hsd beem merely existing xr1to exyemd it wouild devistate me uinless legsl counciul would hsndle my presence wuthout ,e or i would file st more desirsble state-whats your thoughtsI
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Posted April 26th, 2011 in Bankruptcy Q and A. Tagged: 10 years, abd, apology, assets, climate, credit cards, debt credit, deby, domestic violence, electrical utilities, endpoint, feds, litigation, medical bills, mobile home, mva, paying off debts, ssdi, student loan, surgeries.
I would like to hear from people who filed and experience chapter 7 bankruptcy. I want to know to if it actually stays on your credit report for 10 years. Is it also possible to get an apartment and a checking account from credit unions or banks?
it’s medical billings idiot i never borrowed money. It’s people like you that didn’t want obama to pass the free health care bill!
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Posted April 14th, 2011 in Bankruptcy Q and A. Tagged: 10 years, apartment, banks, chapter 7 bankruptcy, checking account, credit report, credit unions, experience chapter, free health care, health care bill, medical billings, money.
I would like to hear from people who filed and experience chapter 7 bankruptcy. I want to know to if it acutally stays on your credit report for 10 years. Is it also possible to get an apartment and a checking account from credit unions or banks?
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Posted April 8th, 2011 in Bankruptcy Q and A. Tagged: 10 years, apartment, banks, chapter 7 bankruptcy, checking account, credit report, credit unions, experience chapter.
have been laid off for a while. I have a personal loan, phone bills and about four credit cards. All my credit adds up to about 20k. I just got a new job and I am making about 2400 a month. My rent is 600 a month and I have about 200 monthly bills. All my credit went into collection agencies. Does anyone have any advice…Its not so easy just to pay it off because of my other expenses and settlements usually require 2 or 3 payments to pay off the whole debt. My loan alone was 8 thousand dollars. I want to pay all this off. Can you please give me advice how to pay it all off and than gradualy how can i rebuild my credit. Another option is bankruptcy…I live in New York. If I do bankruptcy, how bad would that affect my future. Also, would it affect me inheriting a house? Would it be a good option? I know it stays on my credit report for 10 years but can i still build credit after filing bankruptcy and how soon? thanks.
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Posted April 5th, 2011 in Bankruptcy Q and A. Tagged: 10 years, collection agencies, credit cards, credit report, filing bankruptcy, new job, personal loan, phone bills, thousand dollars.
StarcraftII comes out in a week and a half! Been waiting 10 years! I pre-ordered it as soon as I found out back in 2008…with Circuity City. Well, they’ve gone out of business. Filed bankruptcy. Now they’ve been taken over by some other group…yadi yadi yah. Will my pre-order be honored or am I SOL? It would seem to me that their old debts and obligations would be washed away…but it’s worth asking.
Am I going to have to buy this game twice?
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Posted March 10th, 2011 in When To File Bankruptcy. Tagged: 10 years, bankruptcy, debts, game, sol, yah.
I have to wonder why people tell other people not to file bankruptcy because "it will be on your credit report for 7-10 years." I ask this because, if you’re not paying your bills, that too will be on your credit report for a long time. As in, what is the difference? At least when you file bankruptcy, you are consolidating your bills and trying to start over. If you can’t pay your bills, then they’ll just pile-up with late fees and never leave your credit report.
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Posted February 12th, 2011 in Bankruptcy Q and A. Tagged: 10 years, bankruptcy, consolidating your bills, credit report, late fees, long time, quot.
Been married about 10 years. She’s honestly never been much of a wife. Complete slob and totally irresponsible with almost everything. Now I do all the chores, bills, housework, etc, including vacuuming up after her dog all the time. Not only won’t she help clean, but now she actually leaves the house when I clean because it seems to offend her. I’ve spent thousands of hours remodeling the house, even built a home theater, but she doesn’t lift a finger to help. She is constantly suspecting I cheat on her, and has even accused me. She has become totally negative and mean spirited. She actually uses voodoo dolls on people she doesn’t like, and does a happy dance when something bad happens to them. Seems all she wants is for me to do everything for her. She constantly wants sex, but I have grown very unatractedd to her. She is reckless and irresponsible with the budget. I’ve told her we’re in tough shape, but she ignores me and continues to eat out most nights, and go shopping as if we have an unlimited bank account. We are now at the point that I have to sell the house and/or file bankruptcy. But of course I’m having trouble getting the house ready for sale, because I can’t keep up with the cleaning and maintenance. We have one child, but I’ll do everything I can to make sure she doesn’t get hurt.
Based on some of the answers I should explain more. Yes she has gotten gradually worse. I think it has just kind of snuck up on me though the last year or so. Now it’s become unbearable. I do NOT want to hurt her though. I think she still loves me, and would be lost and devestated without me, so that makes my decision very difficult.
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Posted February 11th, 2011 in When To File Bankruptcy. Tagged: 10 years, bankruptcy, budget, chores, happy dance, home theater, housework, shape, shopping, slob, voodoo dolls.
I had a small business in Ca. for 10 years. Accumulated debt along with personal debt, I have decided to file for BK. I now live in AZ., do I need to attain a CA. attorney or can I still do it all here through mail with an AZ attorney?
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Posted January 16th, 2011 in Bankruptcy Q and A. Tagged: 10 years, bk, ca attorney, mail, personal debt, small business.
I’m thinking about filing Chapter 7 but do not know if im eligible. Here’s my situation, I make 19k a year which is below the median; I have no property/assets or savings. I owe 23k on the car and 18k on 3 credit cards. If i sell the car I still owe 8k. I tried to negotiate with my car’s creditor and that’s the best rate they can do. The reason why I want to liquidate my debt is because I want to go back to school full-time. Save money and rebuild credit while in school. If i continue paying my debt ( 5 more years ) I will not have savings and an education. I don’t mean to be a deadbeat on my debts but this is the best solution i can do in order to straighten my life, financially and responsibly. I don’t want to do Chapter 13 for my credit card debts– this will waste my time, money and get a ruined credit report.
I’ll face the consequences: Attorney fees, bad record for 10 years, higher rates.. you name it.
My question is if i’m eligible to file for CHAPTER 7.
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Posted January 14th, 2011 in Bankruptcy Q and A. Tagged: 10 years, attorney fees, best solution, chapter 13, consequences, credit card debts, credit cards, credit report, creditor, deadbeat, education, filing chapter 7, full time, median, property assets, time money.
I am really considering bankruptcy but since it is a major decision, I would really appreciate some feedback from people. Heres my situation:
1. I am 22 years old (23 in 10 days, 33 years old when this is all over)
2. I make ,000 annually at the most
3. I owe ,000 in credit cards from cash advances which I used to pay my mortgage
4. I owe 0,000 for owning my home and pay 00 a month for mortgage (I’m paying interest only, nothing on the principal; 2 loans by the way) not including utility bills
5. I receive 00 from my room mate to pay my mortgage
Now with all these facts given, is it worth filing bankruptcy and having it last 10 years on my credit and finally having some peace of mind? Or, or, should I just get a second job, stress out, struggle my butt off to pay the mortgage and credit cards on top of that, and hope that the real estate market changes in a few years in order to get a refinance to lower my payment?
What do you guys think? Thanks!
Please note:
If you must know, I went into this predicament thinking that 2 other room mates were going to help me pay for the house, but they took off and left me by my lonesome self.
The house is entirely under my name.
Also be aware that bankruptcy lasts for 10 years before it completely clears up on my credit (or so I’ve heard).
Utility bills range from anywhere from 0 to 0 for me, depending on the season.
It just seems more reasonable to give it up now because if the real estate market doesnt pick up in a few years, all that money, effort, and most importantly time will be lost to something that never really was going to pay off in the long run.
Yes, I have been paying the house on time but keep in mind that I’ve been only paying interest and I still owe and will continue to owe the same 0,000 unless I start making payments that are close to 00 a month, which is just, simply impossible for me.
The principal has not gone down at all!
*****On the second detail of paragraph i said 0,000. Sorry, I meant to say 0,000. Sorry for the confusion.*******
****ONE LAST THING***
Having to pay that much money a month is very stressful, especially trying to come up with the money. I really cant take it anymore. I just want to go to college and study and get an apartment and just get away from all this debt that unfortunately I have got myself into. Trying to come up with 00 a month is not easy and it takes a toll after a while, especially when you cant afford it. THAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT REASON FOR ME FILING BANKRUPTCY, getting my life back.
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Posted January 9th, 2011 in When To File Bankruptcy. Tagged: 10 years, 22 years, 33 years, butt, cash advances, credit cards, filing bankruptcy, market changes, money effort, mortgage, paragraph, peace of mind, predicament, principal 2, room mate, room mates, second job, stress, struggle, utility bills.
I have about 25k in credit card debt. Use to be about 9500 but after 10 years they are all judgments and with all the interest and fees its about 25k now. About a year and a half ago i had a really nice job was making decent money. I saved about 9000$ so i can try to pay my debt off. Originally on average i owed about 2500 to each of the credit cards i had. I got all my info together and called each of them to try to set up a plan so i could pay them off. Right now discover says i owe about 7k originally 3k, and city says i owe 6.5k originally 2.4k, washington is now about 4.5k originally 1.8k those 3 are my highest and all three wouldn’t agree for nothing lower then what they say i owe. all others agreed to a very nice settlement. I offered discover 4.5k , city 4k, and Washington about 2.5k to settle. Washington accepted 3k. but city and discover gave me a no and said that if i didn’t have the full amount they would just garnish my checks till its paid in full. At the time i was off work because my back started to give in. I had the doctor take some x rays and she told me that i had to take physical therapy for my back and should stay away from heavy lifting. Which means i cant do my job no more. So now i am unemployed and well luckily i still had that 9k i saved. Well now i am just fed up with them. I already ran out of money and my brothers and sisters are supporting me and i want to just file for bankruptcy and go to school and get my self a degree in business. Does anyone have any advise you can give me. Thanks in advance.
I also forgot to put this in. My brother was going to help me before when i was working he was willing to put in about 3k on top of my 9k so i could get out of debt. But now hes also low on funds and well i just decided to file for bankruptcy and hes willing to help me pay a lawyer for the process.
Also I am not really worried about the credit score part, i have 6 sisters and 3 brothers and well i learned my lesson and i made sure they learned from my mistakes and they are really thankful for my advise about credit cards lol and bank loans. They all have almost perfect credit scores and i had a big hand in getting them there. My sister offered me a position in a business she is opening and all i have to do is go to school for the position. She was actually the one that tried to negotiate with the credit card company’s on my behalf and she just told me to file since they wont accept a settlement.
I just want to see how many options are available for a situation like this. So i am open for any suggestions, advise, ect… from respectful people who can understand the situation. If you want to criticize, go right ahead too lol I want to here all your opinions.
The funniest part about this is they all want to settle now that i have no money. LOL I just think thats really funny.
hehe ya i already knew about that but i am safe from that too because my sister owns about 3 businesses and she is willing to offer me a marketing position. I am really good at it too i have been helping her with allot so i just want to get a degree in that field and go work for her.
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Posted December 30th, 2010 in When To File Bankruptcy. Tagged: 10 years, 9k, bankruptcy, brother, brothers and sisters, checks, credit card debt, credit cards, credit score, decent money, heavy lifting, judgments, lawyer, nice job, physical therapy, thanks in advance, x rays.
I am employed by one of the companies that has been envolved with the back dating of stock options and I was in a 12 month blackout and lost 500K and could not sell to pay my taxes from a sell I did two weeks before the black out and extended black out due to the SEC investigation and during that time the stock just dropped from to . Now I have no stock that isn’t underwater and I don’t know what to do. I owe about 66k . I racked up credit card dept to help me out during this time. I have been reading all the books from NOLO.com and Larry Winglet. I’m tired of being tired and I feel like I have failed. This situation has been very emotional for me I have worked here for 10 years and was ready to pay all of my dept off and instead i’m buried. I’m 53 and I feel like just walking away, but thats not my style. I have never been late on any of my bills CC/auto etc… Thanks for listening and wish me luck!
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Posted November 29th, 2010 in Bankruptcy Q and A. Tagged: 10 years, black out, blackout, credit card, sec investigation, stock options.
So I have bad credit my credit score is 458, I experienced with credit cards right when I turned 18 no one told me what kind of damage they could do I am paying the consequences now. I am 25 going on 26 and I am considering bankruptcy. I have sat down and reviewed my debts and I am thinking that I can probably pay some but they are old from when I was 18. The last think that hurt my credit the most was a car that I purchased and had to let go it was repossessed, and I am now being sued. I have been stressing out so much about all this I will outline what I owe below and I would like advise about what I should do file or try to pay things little by little. I live pay check to pay check am a single mother and only make 10.00 and I only work 30 hours to 35 a week because I have doc appoints for my son or he gets sick or I have to miss work because there was no school and I can not afford a sitter. So please give me some advise I am young but I have already ruined everything I know that
bankruptcy will stay on my credit for 10 years but honestly I don’t think anything else matters . This is what I owe
Credit card 2000 capital one
Credit card 1000 verizon
credit card 500 exxon
credit card 800 walmart
apt 2000
apt 2000
repo 5000
medical 5000
These are all rounded numbers and I don’t know if I can really afford to pay this I have to go to court concerning the car in may please help need advise
These are all cards that have been closed and are on my credit everything is on my credit. I don’t have a hs diploma or ged so it’s hard to find a better paying job. I have tried looking for a second job but no one can work with my hours I work 9-6 every day. My current bills are
rent 640
light 150
food 200 month
gas 40 week
and thats not including emergencies such as doctors co pays meds, and personal necesities
I do have family but they always back out on me I have learned that I have to do everything on my own and I can not count on anyone but myself. I have not tried debt consolidation because I thought that your debts had to be current and mine are not but I keep getting collection letter and calls I keep changing my number and it’s getting old because I dont know how these companies get my new number I don’t even have a regular cell it’s pre paid, and where I live now my mom got me the apt i’m just tired of all this
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Posted November 23rd, 2010 in When To File Bankruptcy. Tagged: 10 years, bad credit, bankruptcy, capital one, capital one credit card, consequences, credit cards, credit score, debt consolidation, debts, doctors co, emergencies, exxon, exxon credit card, hs diploma, necesities, second job, single mother, verizon credit, walmart.
We have been married 30 years. 10 years ago he had a brain aneurysm at the age of 47. Docs say he should have died as they had never seen anyone live with this type of aneurysm. They had to inquire around the world to figure out how to operate so he didn’t just lay there and bleed out in his head. They received some ideas and they operated and he recovered quite well to everyone’s surprise. No short term memory though. 5 years ago he had meningitis & a staph infection in his brain. This set him back quite a bit. Over the last 5 years he has deteriorated in that I am back to helping him with personal care and everything else in his life. I am completely responsible for everything in our lives. We had to file bankruptcy after the aneurysm and we lost our home and everything else. I have worked hard these 10 years to get our credit back and to buy another home for us. My mortgage is cheaper than our rent was. He walks unsteadily with a hemi walker but often has to use his wheelchair. He was diagnosed a year ago with a melanoma in his eye and the optic nerves in his other eye are deteriorating so he does not see detail anymore. In the last 5 years my health has suffered greatly. I believe it is the stress of taking care of him. He has short term memory loss but he is still "with it". There is little decrease in brain function so its not like he is out of it and wouldn’t know. I have talked to him about it many times but he gets all teary so I stop. 5 minutes later he doesn’t remember talking about it. I get no help from our children or his family or mine. They all say just ask but when I do there is always a reason why they cannot help. I am not interested in finding a new man or anything like that. I just want to get healthy again and not have my life totally consumed with his care. I have looked into help at home but it would cost me 0.00 a month and we cannot afford it. he receives social security disability as do I. I also receive a pension from my past employment but he was self employed all his working career so he has no pension. Anyone have any ideas that can help me? I pray on this all the time but I never seem to come up with an answer that I am positive about. HELP!
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Posted November 4th, 2010 in When To File Bankruptcy. Tagged: 10 years, amp, bankruptcy, brain aneurysm, brain function, docs, emplo, hemi, melanoma, meningitis, new man, optic nerves, personal care, short term memory, short term memory loss, social security, social security disability, staph infection, stress, wheelchair.
I was laid off in August of 2009. I still have not secured employment. I had stellar credit until October of 2009 when all my savings were depleted to keep up with my bills. I have over 5,000 in credit card debt as the late fees etc. have been adding up monthly. My credit score was at 720 before October of 09. I’m guessing it is now in the 400’s. No payments have been made on any of my credit cards since October 09. Should I file bankruptcy or just keep postponing any payments until I secure employment? I feel that my credit is ruined for life anyways, so why bother stressing out and paying it off. I’m confused as to what to do. Thanks.
Also, I took the time to write and mail letters to each of my credit cards companies three months "prior" to even knowing I would be laid off. I had requested that they drop the interest rate to 0% so that I could get them all paid off. They ALL declined. It wasn’t until 90 days after each of my payments were due that they contacted me and at THAT POINT wanted to work something out. I was enraged to say the least. I thought…"Now that you’ve destroyed my credit, you want to work something out". Again, I was livid. Had they just done that when I asked, I probably wouldn’t have gotten into more of a mess. I feel now that had they settled for 0 percent interest, they would at least be getting most of their money back, now it looks like they won’t be getting any. Part of me feels bad, but part doesn’t. Also, do I pay taxes here in CA on the released debt through bankruptcy? Because I don’t even have money to do that. Yikes.
One of the responses said I should have filed bankruptcy a year ago, but a friend advised me not to due to my ongoing health problems. Had I filed and needed hospitalization, etc. I would not have been able to add that debt for another 10 years. I have no medical nor dental insurance because it’s so expensive. As far as living beyond my means, a huge portion of my debt is medical and dental charges. Please don’t assume people are careless who get to this point. I had to charge alot just to survive.
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Posted November 1st, 2010 in When To File Bankruptcy. Tagged: 10 years, credit card debt, credit cards companies, credit score, dental insurance, health problems, hospitalization, insurance, interest rate, late fees, money, should I file bankruptcy, three months, yikes.
I filed in April of 2006. I viewed my credit report a couple of years ago, and I remember saying something about it going off of my credit in 2016. Is this when I can file again? 10 years? Or is it 7?
My intention was to never have to file again, but I got sick and have tons of medical bills from the last 3 years.
I take that back. (my memory if awful). I filed in April of 2004 NOT 2006.
This also means my Credit Report said the bankruptcy would come off 10 years from when I filed (so that means 2014 not 2016).
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Posted October 5th, 2010 in Bankruptcy Q and A. Tagged: 10 years, 3 years, bankruptcy, credit report, intention, medical bills, memory.
There are no Children in our relationship. I recently found out that my wife of 10 years committed adultery with a roommate we had living with us. I want for us to overcome this problem and other smaller problems within our marriage. I already forgave her for her intercession. After I found out about her infidelity, I went to a men’s retreat, and have become a reborn Christian. I have never cheated on my marriage vows and still hold these vows sacred even after all that has happened, I Love my wife and want her back. I have written to her 5 pages of my faults in our marriage, and have asked for forgiveness for my faults. She says that I am forgiven from her lips but her heart says otherwise. I know that I have the biblical right to divorce her, but this is not what I want, I want to work with her in mending our marriage. However, she will not stop taking phone calls from her lover, we have been separated for a month now (not my decision) and I believe that she (although I don’t have proof) living with him. Because she will not talk to me, I don’t even know where she is living. (Don’t judge me here I have my reasons). She insists that she is going to file for divorce… so if the bible says I have the right to divorce her, I can, but this is not what I want. The bible also says that God hates divorce, and to do all things possible to mend the marriage. This is what I want but she does not want any part of it. I have forgiven her, and have treated her with respect as my family has, and she continues to treat us like garbage. So I ask again how do you help an unrepentant adulteress find Gods Light and Love????? Should I divorce her, or should I let her file for the divorce? When do you take off your wedding band, when the vow is broken, or when the divorce is finalized? Since we are not living together at the moment and I have lost everything in my life and yes I do mean everything, my wife, my home, my job, my business, having to declare bankruptcy, and some serious medical problems. I have found that God did not turn his back on me rather I turned my back on him for many years. I am now rediscovering who I am and I am taking steps to better myself. But what do I do about her???????
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Posted September 19th, 2010 in When To File Bankruptcy. Tagged: 10 years, adultery, bankruptcy, bible, faults, forgiveness, garbage, god hates divorce, infidelity, intercession, lips, marriage, marriage vows, medical problems, phone calls, proof, relationship, roommate, vow, wedding band.
I am already pissed at myself and feel like a complete failure for contemplating this, so save me the guff… Anyways, I lived off of my credit cards for a few years when I lost a job and had some medical issues. Prior to that, I spent like a young 20-something who wants unnecessary BS.
I have 4 cards with a combined balance of ,000. 2 credit cards have been inactive for months, and the other 2 have clothing/food purchases from 3 months ago. I have been trying to stay afloat and have paid on time for the last 10 years, trying to pay them off. My creditors have not treated me well for my loyalty and about 1 1/2 ago ( I missed my payment date by a few days), raised my minimum payment to amounts I can not keep up with. I have been paying them with my child’s child support money since I have been unable to find work. I have lost so much in my life and I was really proud of my credit. But I feel like I am in a sinking ship trying to keep up and recently seeing how much more I have to pay since I can only afford the minimums on all 4 cards really made me feel hopeless.
By all means, I am a loser: I can’t find a job, I qualify for food stamps, I am trying to finish college and can barely afford to buy textbooks, I am trying to raise a child alone, I am living off the kindness of others with no assets and about in my checking account. I am terrified of stopping paying off my cards, but I literally think this is the only way. I hesitated all these years because I wanted to be responsible, and I heard bankruptcy ruins lives. What should I do? Where do I start? Thanks for your time
Also…Looked for Bankruptcy attorneys online…How much will I have to pay one (avg)? I live in So-Cal.
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Posted August 29th, 2010 in When To File Bankruptcy. Tagged: 10 years, avg, bankruptcy attorneys, checking account, child support money, credit cards, creditors, few days, food purchases, food stamps, guff, kindness, loser, loyalty, medical issues, minimum payment, payment date, s child, sinking ship, thanks for your time.
we have a 5 year old daughter, have been together for 10 years and married for 3. when we first got together i found out he had a cocaine addiction, he told me he stopped, when our daughter was born we moved in together and he was moody, mean and stingy with his money so i left him, 4 months later he says he’s changed that he was on coke but now he’s clean, he appeared to have changed so i married him, yet right away when we married and moved in together it all started again and for the last 3 years he has lied lied lied, wasted away soo much money lied about his pay checks, put us in debt, ruined our credit and i just found out he’s been using coke this whole time and thats where all the money ahs gone. he says he loves me and his family is begging me to give him a second chance, he says hes going to go seek help but my feeling for him are gone. should i stay or go? we just filed bankruptcy and all i have left is our house. if i loose that it will be sooo hard to ever buy a house again. i cant afford it on my own.
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Posted August 28th, 2010 in When To File Bankruptcy. Tagged: 10 years, 3 years, 4 months, bankruptcy, checks, cocaine addiction, coke, much money, second chance, whole time.